The slavegirl blog

Being suspended can be good, and it can be horrible depending on who ties you up..

This slavegirl’s face tells me she is in some degree of pain, but that doens’t have to be a bad thing. Having her Master fiddeling with her pussy at the same time can make this pain incredible good.

The site the picture of the suspended slavegirl is from has litteraly TONS of awsome BDSM content, well worth a membership, if you have the balls to sign up, and if you’re not a cheap ass.. 

Both my Master and I use that site a lot, for getting in the “mood” for passing time and for getting great ideas for new ways to play.
Even if i am his slavegirl and he is my Master, and he punishes me for behaviour not pleasing to him, we do have quite a bit of playtime. And during those play sessions, sometime he calls them “training of his slavegirl” I go through much pleasure and lots of pain. As I’ve said before, I am not a painslut, but pain can help getting me to subspace.. (Subspace is a  term mostly used to describe a moderate to deep trancelike experience by a submissive during interaction with a Dominant)

Getting to subspace is such an awsome feeling, even I can take a good amount of pain to get there… And being a slavegirl in suspension having my Master play with me helps a great deal!

I have many fantasies. Even if being in a fulltime Master/ slavegirl relationship for three years steady, and some shorter D/S relationships before that, there are many things I have yet to do.

I sometimes dream about another girl fucking me with a strapon. I am not sure why, normally I would not call myself bisexual. (Even though I have licked another girl’s pussy.. Did not enjoy that too much though.) But there is something about the thought of another girl fucking me that makes me wet. It doesn’t even have to be a femdom doing it, it can just as well be another slavegirl. I do, however, not wish to be the one fucking another submissive. I am far from a top-sub. (A submissive who in a situation with other submissives will be dominant towards them, but still a submissive to pure dominant people)

Another fantasy of mine I find so disturbing I am still thinking of a way to beg my Master to try this, is to be in the position of the slavegirl in this picture:

The picture is takes from this awsome slavegirl site, CLICK HERE to visit.
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To me it just look so grotesque having a hook up your ass… and at the same time it looks so desirable.
Can you understand that? I, for one, cannot. I am sure the hooks they are using in these slavegirls’ asses have rounded tips, but they are still hooks for crying out loud. Why would I even want that up my ass?

Another thing I think I would enjoy is to see my Master analfuck a male slave. That will never happen though, my Master is so straight it’s boring. (I will not call him boring to his face, but he knows what his slavegirl thinks about that issue….

I love this picture, and I love the site I got it from:
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A site dedicated to one week intensive training of slavegirls.

My Master and I are members of many BDSM related sites. (Not the fake ones with pornstars barely getting their asses pink from “rough spanking”. But sites like the link above leads to are in our eyes great. We get turned on by watching them, and my Master is getting many ideas for how to play with me, his slavegirl.

I am also a lover of bondage, and the way the slavegirl in the picture is bound is great. It shows skills! And trust me, it is not easy to be unable to move because of tight bondage. Notice that even the slavegirl’s nipples are in bondage!! That is an eye for details with the one who tied her ropes.

My Master is not as big a bondagefan as myself, he thinks it’s more pleasing if I keep my possitions without being locked in them… His way is harder on a poor slavegirls than ropes… At least in the long run…

You don’t have to be sadistic to be a dominant, and you do not have to be a painslut to be a slavegirl or a submissive. I do not say you can’t be, because you can.
But BDSM is everything from some fun roleplaying in bed, using silk scarfs and handcuffs covered in pink,

imitated fur. It can also be slapping your lovers ass while fucking. These examples doesn’t mean you belong to the BDSM community, but they have vanilla parts of both bondage and spanking in them.
There are submissives who find pleasure in getting their nipples pierced with needles and their asses fisted. This doesn’t mean that every submissive enjoys this, or would ever think of doing it.

This would for example not be an ideal situtation for me tofind myself in. I am not very flexible, and being forced in this possition alone would be torture in my eyes. When adding the brest bondage and the spanking… Let’s just say I hope my Master never wants to push my limits in this direction.
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For more examples of this, in my eyes, torture, you can check out this site, it’s full of it!

I will, however, always try to follow my Master whenever he leads me forward. It is a way of becoming better, both to him and to myself. I am not sure I can ever explain to anyone not a slavegirl how this works. But if I ever am in a situation I don’t know how to handle, or maybe I don’t know even if I can handle it, it is because I want this myself. I am a slavegirl, that is who I am.

Kneeling at my Masters feet in the evening is BDSM. I am also a slavegirl when he pulls down his pants before he slaps his dick in my face for me to suck it.
That doesn’t mean I am not a slavegirl when I wake up alone in the morning on the days he is not at home. I am still in a BDSM relationship, and his needs and wishes are always on my mind. Not because he tells me they should be, but because I want them to be. I am his slavegirl and he is my Master.

Let me first say that this blogpost is no answer to the big question “how to train a slavegirl”. The subject is way too big for anyone to give you one correct way to do this. The reason for this is quite simple, every slavegirl is different the same way every Master is expecting different things from his girl.

I am not sure when I became aware of the submissive inside me, I believe it was in the beginning of my twenties. I have always been open minded and quite curious, and after getting access to the Internet I came in contact with people who were as open minded and curious as myself.  It was when chatting with my new online friends I slowly understood that I had some level of submissive inside me.

I have to say that even if I find the 24/7 training of slavegirls at the paysite The Upper Floor appealing, I have never been close to anything like this. Training of slavegirls in a big household, where only the best girls get to stay.
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In the beginning I was quite vanilla, and it was for the most parts bondage and light spanking that turned me on. Not that I ever tried it in the beginning, but the thought of being bound and spanked made me all warm inside, and gave me lots of fantasies used for pleasuring myself..

Some time went by, and after I had tried the bondage and light spanking some times, my fantasies became more and more extreme. Or, I thought they were extreme at the time.
I started out as a modest submissive, and now, about 7 years later I am a slavegirl. To most people my lifestyle would be extreme, to me it is everything I want it to be.

My own training has been over time, and even though I had been in D/S relationships before I met my Master and became his fulltime slavegirl, I have learned most after he came into my life. It was like he built me up from scratch, and made me who he wanted me to be. Luckily for us and our life together, what he wanted was the same as I wanted deep inside. I will never be a slavegirl done with all her training, because I always want to become better. I need to become better, it is a burning desire deep inside of me.

If you have read this post hoping to get a step by step manual of how to train a slavegirl, I am sorry. I could never give such a manual, because we are all individuals, and our needs and desires are not the same.